What Divorce Does not Solve

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Bob on with Nancy Turner's Along the Way, Tuesday, October 27, 10:00 - 11:00 Am CST

Outline:
What Divorce Does not Solve...
Many Couples believe that Divorce is the ultimate answer to their marriage problems

1. Yet divorce promises much more then it can deliver
2. Divorce will not take down the walls of pain and sin in your own heart
3. Divorce will not heal the painful memories of your marriage
4. Divorce will not pay the other person back for their wrongs against you
5. Divorce will not restore your damaged emotions
6. Divorce will not protect you from making the same mistakes
7. Divorce will not give you a clean slate to start a new relationship
8. “I hate divorce, says the Lord God of Israel…” Malichi 2:16


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Bob Moeller on Prime Time Chicago Today with Host Steve Hiller and Produce Michelle Strombeck, WMBI 90.1 FM - What Divorce Does Not Solve

Bob Moeller and Steve Hiller in WMBI's Studio


Steve Hiller, Host and Michelle Strombeck, Producer, Prime Time Chicago, 3:00 Pm - 4:00 Pm CST, Monday through Fridays, Moody Radio Chicago


Topic for Monday, October 19 - How To Make One of the Biggest Mistakes of Your Life: How to Marry the Wrong Person


Ephesians - Chapter 4:2-3

Verse 2. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.
Verse 3. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.


A. How to Marry the Wrong Person

1. Date someone who is a non-believer

2. Decide you’ll get married at all costs

3. Become sexually involved with the person or live together first

4. Find someone you believe you can change after you’re married

5. Date someone with an addiction or other serious issues

6. Date someone who is married or who divorced for non-biblical reasons



B. How to Marry the Right Person

1. Be God’s right person first

2. Find Your Identity in Christ not a dating or love relationship

3. Give up your own desires and seek God’s will

4. Refuse all moral and spiritual compromise

5. Be truly content in your present situation

6. Find your place to serve Christ

7. Step out in faith when God introduces you

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For Better For Worse For Keeps Writing School with Bob and Cheryl Moeller

Who: You are all cordially invited to the First For Better For Worse For Keeps Writing School, Small enough to know your name, taught by Published Writing Professionals. Space is limited to first 90 participants.

What: For Better For Worse For Keeps Writing School, with topics such as How to get Started, How to Get Published, How to Get an Agent, with lots of question and answer sessions

When: Wednesday, October 28 9:30 Am to 4:00 Pm

Where: Arlington Heights Memorial Library, 500 N Dunton Ave, Arlington Heights, Illinois 60004-5966 (Please do not contact the library) Contact for information or R.S.V.P. office@bobandcherylmoeller.com

Cost: Free (A freewill offering will be taken for the For Better For Worse For Keeps Ministries)

Lunch and etc.: On your own at area restaurants in downtown Arlington Heights or bring a sack lunch. Snacks and conference notes are provided. No childcare.

Each participant can submit 1500 words before the conference, to be reviewed by Bob and Cheryl. This can be 1500 words for one article or book, 750 words for two different projects OR 500 words each for three different projects. You can sign up for 30 minute time slot for a personal conference, same day as conference, 5:00 to 9:00 Pm at the library, with either Bob or Cheryl. If you need to leave earlier, we will attempt to accommodate your schedule, if possible. You do not have to give a writing sample to come to the conference.

Teachers are Bob and Cheryl Moeller, married for 30 years, parents of six children (one son-in-law), and three lively dogs:

Bob Moeller, D.Min.: Co-founder of For Better For Worse For Keeps Ministries, TV host, radio personality, For Better For Worse For Keeps National Conference Speaker, The Road to “I Do” Single’s Conference Speaker, published author of 8 books, ghost writer for 6 books, wrote over 100 articles for magazines and newspapers such as Focus on the Family, Leadership Journal, Moody Magazine, Christianity Today, Christian Reader, Light and Life, Evangelical Beacon, Standard, Wesleyan Advocate, Marriage Partnership, Christian Courier, David C. Cook Publishing, Wesleyan Publishing House, Standard Publishing, Lifeway Publishing, and many more.
Nationally Published books: For Better For Worse For Keeps (Multnomah 1992), To Have and To Hold (Multnomah), The Stirring (a novel with Thomas Nelson 1995), Love in Action: Healing Conflict in Your Church (Multnomah 1995), AWANA: God’s Miracle (AWANA Press 1998), Marriage Minutes (Moody 1998), For Better For Worse For Keeps (Marriagevine 2006), Marriage Miracle (Harvest 2010)

Cheryl Moeller, M.A.R.: Co-founder of For Better For Worse For Keeps Ministries, literary agent for 11 years,.published author of 3 books with national publishers, self-published five books sold through websites and at conferences, author of articles for various publications including Marriage Partnership and MOPS.org, syndicated humor columnist for 7 online parent websites and magazines, stand up comic, speaker for retreats and conferences, and mom blogger at www.momlaughs.blogspot.com.
Nationally Published books: Marriage Minutes (Moody 1998), For Better For Worse For Keeps (Marriagevine 2006), and Marriage Miracle: (Harvest 2010). Self-Published books: 2 Novels with Curriculum - Baby Saves Christmas and Lexi’s Homeschool Diary, 2 Gift Books - Keep Courting: 100 Ways to Keep Courting After Marriage and Aunt Sarah’s Alaskan Cookbook, Preschool Curriculum – Homeschool Your Preschooler on $1 a Day

www.bobandcherylmoeller.com

This writing school is our attempt to answers many questions we get from people each week on the topic of writing, agents, publishing and branding.

(Please do not contact the library) Contact for information or R.S.V.P. office@bobandcherylmoeller.com

For Better For Worse For Keeps Marriage Conference with Dr. Bob Moeller, Morton Grove, Illinois

Saturday, October 17, 8:15 Am – 4:00 Pm – Free - For Better For Worse For Keeps Marriage Conference, Chicago Area, Christ Our Savior Church (FFOCCUS), Venue: American Legion Memorial Civic Center, 6140 Dempster Street, Morton Grove, IL 60053. Free conference notes provided.

Registration Fee: $5 per person to cover lunch and refreshment.
Pastor and Mrs. Guimary welcome you to their church. Seating is limited to the Banquet Hall's capacity so register now by phone: (224) 616-8921 or email Pastor Guimary paguimary@comcast.net

Join us for this life changing conference!

Sunday, October 11, Duplicate Sunday School Hours - Men want Sex, Women want Conversation

The Gospel Institute of Fox Valley Church of
West Dundee, Illinois
Presents a Mini Marriage Seminar:
Men want Sex; Women want Conversation
"I know what I want to DISCUSS!"
"I know what I want to DO!"

Free Event, This Sunday, October 11th, 9:00 am or 10:45 am

Please Register Via
· Call 847.844.1010
· info@foxvalleychurch.org

Dr. Moeller is a pastor-at-large with For Better, For Worse, For Keeps Ministries,radio personality, author, and host of the weekly television call-in program. Cheryl is an author, speaker, and comic for groups across the midwest. Bob and Cheryl have been married 30 years and are the parents of six children (and one son-in-law).

Leaf Placements - a Craft

These are placements Grandpa and Grandma will love. This is a good craft project to do when the leaves are changing in the fall with your children. Find and collect some colorful fresh leaves on the ground around your neighborhood. Take a picture of your child/children near a tree. Write on a small index card the Bible verse - Hebrews 13:5b - God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you." Cut four pieces of wax paper about 16 inches long. Lay two pieces of wax paper, wax side up, on your work table. Situate several colorful leaves on the paper right side up, leaving at least a one inch border around every side of the wax paper. Situate the Bible Verse card and the photograph of the child/children near the tree right side up, also. Lay the other piece of wax paper upside down so the wax is touching the leaves. Make sure the two pieces of paper are the same size and match up or cut accordingly. (You need an adult to help with this part.) With a hot iron but a light touch, quickly iron the two pieces of wax paper together.)

Cheryl will be on with Nancy Turner, Host, Tuesday, October 5, 10:30 Am CST

Nancy Turner (pictured above)

Cheryl uses her over-the-counter-top humor to help you see the humor in the everydayness of life. Listen to Cheryl on Moody Radio 90.1 FM talking with Nancy Turner about life, laughter, and being a mom on This is the Day!, Tuesday, October 6, 2009, 10:30 AM CST.
This is the Day!